Cause of
premature ejaculation. What is the problem? Why my penis betrays me in
the very moment? How can I deal with it? Get answers right here and
right now.
What is the cause of
premature ejaculation?
For many
years, sex experts have tended to say that premature ejaculation is
caused by early 'conditioning'. In other words, the man's early,
rushed (and perhaps furtive) sexual experiences had to be quick - so
as to avoid detection! The idea is that all this hectic 'rush'
conditions him to climax as quickly as possible.
However, in
our own surveys we have found that many men with P.E. say that they
did not have rushed, hasty early sexual experiences. They maintain
that they were 'highly triggered' right from the start of their sex
lives.
It's worth noting that from an evolutionary point
of view, it's probable that throughout human history, males who
climaxed quickly were more likely to have children. (In other words,
if you were a caveman who 'came' very fast, you'd stand more chance
of impregnating cavewomen and, therefore, enlarging and
strengthening your tribe - than a chap who took all day about
it.)
Therefore, we feel that the tendency to reach
orgasm quickly may actually be inherited rather than learned.
Finally,
there's no question that anxiety (or 'nerves') plays a part in many
cases of P.E. If you're nervous, you're likely to come too quickly.
That's why many males have discovered for themselves that a small
amount of alcohol eases their nerves and makes them less likely to
climax prematurely. But we wouldn't recommend alcohol as a
treatment!
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