Premature ejaculation cure.
This method cures the vast majority
of people, PROVIDED that both partners are keen to co-operate.
The
Masters-Johnson method
- This method cures the vast majority
of people, PROVIDED that both partners are keen to co-operate
(which isn't always the case). It is based on a special 'penis
grip' developed by the American therapists, Masters and Johnson.
This finger-grip abolishes the desire to climax, so if the
couple use it - under careful instruction - over a period of
weeks, they can usually 're-train' the man so that he can last
much, much longer. For instance, we have seen many men who had
P.E. so badly that they couldn't even last for 30 seconds. But
after careful training with their partners, they were soon able
to last as long as half an hour. The programme (and the grip)
work for male gay couples as well as for heterosexual ones.
- The Masters and Johnson grip really
needs to be demonstrated to you personally by an expert. Most
couples who try to learn it from the Internet or a book get it
wrong! But basically, it involves the partner placing her hand
so that her thumb is on one side of the man's erect penis (the
nearer side to her - when she is facing him), while her index
and middle fingers are on the other side. The index finger is
just above the ridge of the glans (the 'head' or 'fireman's
helmet') while the middle finger is just below the ridge. When
the man feels that he's near to a climax, he tells his partner.
She then squeezes his shaft firmly between her thumb and the
other two fingers (don't worry: it's painless!).
- Unless this is done as part of a
carefully organised programme, it probably won't work. Our
advice: see a professional. In the UK, you can find one through
Family Planning Clinics, through Relate, through Couples
Counselling Scotland, or through the British Association for
Sexual and Relationship Therapy (BASRT).
